My husband is going through it, and it's really hurtful. It's been pretty rocky for a while, but I can't make him stop, only he can. I do love him and have fought to make us happy, but he's just not willing. He takes me and our life together for granted and has been selfish this whole time. He's developed a "lust for the single life" for the past few months and it's getting to his head. I can tell he's getting too wrapped up in thinking this, and I know it's not the right life for him. I'm good to him, and I've tried compromising everything, but it's one-sided. As much as I don't want to let him go, I don't want to be the kind of woman I pity, and that's a woman who allows herself to be treated bad for the man she loves who in return, doesn't love her back. If you've been through this (let him go),What happened with your life? and what happened with his?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on Jun. 11, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by alexandersmom03 at 11:50 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by sweetstkissez22 at 11:05 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by alexandersmom03 at 11:13 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:20 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by alexandersmom03 at 11:26 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Thank You. That makes perfect sense, and I have enabled him by allowing him to come back. It's made him not take it seriously, and use me to fall back on because he thinks I will keep giving him chances, and I did think about those questions. It would be better for me and my children if he left. His problems will no longer be ours, but they will be his, and he won't be able to make them ours anymore.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Jun. 11, 2009