Im getting over my husbands affair quickly. not putting it behind me but trying to get through it. he has been wonderful through everything and he knows it will take time for me to heal. However, when he comes home in october. I told him we are not sharing a room until sex comes back into play. I dont want to have sex with him until I feel i am ready but I am clueless as to how long i should wait. Do it too soon and i can scar myself. Do it too late or not at all, it can hurt my marriage. I know i will have to wait until the thought of seeing him naked doesnt repulse me but i need other advice. If you stayed with your husband who cheated, how long did it take you? did u do it too soon? how did you get through that jump back into sex??? PLEASE HELP ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!!Answer Question
Answer by tropicalmama at 8:18 AM on Jun. 12, 2009
I would have him get tested for STDs. The process will let him know how serious his actions were and how they can effect your health, fertility and your family. When to have sex is up to you, if you want to then go ahead. You've already made the decision to forgive him you might as well jump in with two feet.
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