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My child father and i are not together. but we still kiss(sex) and tell each other i love you . we haven't been together in almost two years and i recently asked him why we couldn't be together and he replied that his heart isn't there .we are sopposed to be moving in together by the end of this year so he can be closer to the baby because right now we live in two different states .we had sex about a month ago and i thought i was pregnant ..he say he didn't want another one and that he would never have sex with me again ..i don'tknow what to think about this situation..i'm lost and confused .

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:37 AM on Jun. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Jun. 12, 2009

  • have to agree with the above, you need to move on and do your own thing. he wants to see baby more he can move closer but also give u cs to help suport that babys needs. maybe if u move on eaither A he will see whats he could lose or B u will find a man who loves u and wants a future and maybe more kids later on. stop pleaseing this guy thats all your doing and u will be the one hurt. good luck.

    Answer by tabbys4 at 9:42 AM on Jun. 12, 2009

  • UMMMMMMMM he wants his cake and to eat it to. STOP sleeping with him and DON'T move in together. If his heart isn't in it then why does he tell you he loves you. You and him can be parents to your child living in different places and if he doesnt want to be with you then why sleep with him and live in the same home. Get on with your life and find someone that will love you for who you are and someone that will love your child also. When your ready you will find someone that will treat you the way you should be treated and the way he is treating you is very disrespectful. He may love you for the fact that you are the mother of he's child but that as far as that goes.


    Answer by Anonymous at 9:44 AM on Jun. 12, 2009

  • i believe you ladies but it's hard being inlove with someone and you don't knowfor sure if they love you back in that type of way . He was my first and only person i have been with i really don't know anyone outside of him..everything makes sense i guess i'm just hoping things will change ..i dont know thanks for your great advice tho it really got me thinking.and the reson why i was moving was because i have to get out of my parent house but don't have enough money to move out on my own and i wanted to be in a new place ..somthing fresh like a new beginning

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:52 AM on Jun. 12, 2009

  • sounds like you are being used. STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM. if i were you, i would NOT move in with him. if he's told you he doesn't want to be with you, then move on.

    Answer by MommyToEthan at 10:41 AM on Jun. 12, 2009

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