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would you be mad?

would you be mad if your boyfriend said he was going to come over to sleep over after he went out with his friends then not come or call at all?? so idk if hes sleeping at a friends or who knows this has happened serveral times before all with an excuse.. like i was drunk blah blah i couldnt use anyones phone( he doesnt have a cell right now).. should i make a big deal about it AGAIN or let it go. or be done with this. its just one of biggest pet peeves CALL me or COME when you say you will..

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:06 PM on Jun. 14, 2009 in Relationships

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  • If it was a first time then I would probably let it go but since it' happened more than once I'd be pissed. Have a talk with him and let him know how it makes you feel. Maybe he doesn't know. If he knows and is still doing it then he's just being an incensitive jerk. Good luck!
    sadira29

    Answer by sadira29 at 12:09 PM on Jun. 14, 2009

  • Being angry is one thing but making a big deal out of it is another. I'd probably be hurt and possibly angry but let it go. Yelling will just turn him away and you would cheat yourself out of quality time with him a second time.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:12 PM on Jun. 14, 2009

  • it really depends on how serious your relationship is. if youve been dating for a while i would probably be pretty pissed that he would be that insensitive. if its a fairly new relationship, just explain to him that it worries you and annoys you that you are expecting him to come, then doesnt call or show. if something simple and logical like that bothers him for you to bring up, then he really isnt committed to what you guys have.
    allybot

    Answer by allybot at 2:06 PM on Jun. 14, 2009

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