and mean and selfish sometimes would u just give up on seeing your grandchildren.. or would the need to be a grandma over ride any dil issue u had.?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:46 PM on Jun. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by TheDiva320 at 7:51 PM on Jun. 14, 2009
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Answer by jeanclaudia at 7:52 PM on Jun. 14, 2009
When she upsets you just blow her off but in a good way do it for the grandkids, don't make her do this to you those are your grandkids. If she has a problem that is her problem just treat her nice atleast your are not the bad guy, she sounds like she is the one with the problem.
And don't mention this to the kids just be the best grandma ever soon they will wonder what's up with their mom and realize it is her with the negative vibe here.
Don't ever let her run over you like this you see your babies when you want to not her time. GL
Some people can't help themselves being this way, just hang in there it will be alright.
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Answer by justjacki at 9:22 PM on Jun. 14, 2009
I would cope and never say a bad thing about her. My relationship with my son would be what I cared about. My love with my grandchildren more important than a difficult DIL. She would only be difficult if I let her get to me. I would not argue or openly disagree and I would give her options and let her choose what is best for her. In fact I would even say it that way, "What is best for you and the kids?" And I would mean it. No drama, no trying to decide if I need to just cut my grandchildren loose....just being kind (even if she isn't) and living my life. That doesn't mean going out of my way. That means being flexible, setting my boundaries/limits, and never challenging her place as the mother of HER children and her place as my son's partner and equal. It may be hard but that is exactly what I will do if I don't like my DIL. Hell, even if I love my DIL that is still what I am going to do.
Answer by frogdawg at 11:01 PM on Jun. 14, 2009
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