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How long do you think a man can hold out with out having sex...?

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sugalove20

Asked by sugalove20 at 2:08 AM on Jun. 15, 2009 in Relationships

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  • haha i don't kno if its possible my man would want it everyday w/me if he had the chance ...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:13 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • as long as he wants. He can have it with himself so he doesn't really need a partner if he doesn't want one.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:13 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • I have a friend who hasn't had any sex in about 9 years. He's been single that long, but doesn't take sex lightly... it's not casual to him so.. till he meets the right woman, guess he'll keep not having it.
    In a relationship, it depends on the reason he's not having it.
    lisa_ann_p

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 2:19 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • lol i guess it just depends on the man, cuz every man is different. People just make it seem like men are so sexual and tht sex is on their mind so much you would think they could only keep from having it so long...thats like if i had a bad of cookies on my mind all day everyday im gonna go get me some cookies lol ya kno.?
    sugalove20

    Answer by sugalove20 at 2:29 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • It depends on the guy and his sex drive. But I agree with most of the above answers too. They have their hand (LOL) so really they don't "need" sex per se.
    antkritden

    Answer by antkritden at 2:35 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • does he drink every night, and I mean DRINK!! my ex bf drank ALOT and had sex twice in a yr because he was to drunk to get it up...yet he was obsessed with porn!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:44 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • mine gets really upset after 5 days.
    Momchipomkids

    Answer by Momchipomkids at 5:17 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • Men with depression, high cholesterol, overweight, underweight, stress, etc... can go a long time without it. Sex is a mind thing so if they train their minds not to think about it then they will lose desire for it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:26 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • my husband went 4 months while i was pregnant . then we had sex once then he went 3 more months up to my 6 week check
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:44 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

  • depends. lol. My fionce and I dont go longer than 4 days because I get bitchy....him to
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 7:32 AM on Jun. 15, 2009

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