I found a picture from a woman on his phone last week Thursday, confronted him, got into a huge argument, he apologized but didn’t want to talk things through. So I made him leave the house on Thursday night. Ever since we have not been speaking (only cordially about the house or our son) and he’s been sleeping in my son’s room. We had a “normal” weekend of doing things with our 6 year old, chores, etc. He goes to bed after my son and leaves for work before we wake up. So my son doesn’t know that daddy’s been sleeping in his room. I work full time and make my own money…and am expecting a child in a couple of months. At this point I don’t even care that I’m sleeping alone. Sad to say but I would like to work on things…BUT I feel that he should make the first step. He is very stubborn as we’ve been through communication issues before. CONT'D..Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:17 PM on Jun. 15, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:22 PM on Jun. 15, 2009
Try and mend things but, he needs to open up to you more communication is really, really important in a relationship if you two love each other which you pretty much sound like you do love him try and mend the pieces back together and have your family back to normal. Him sleeping in the bed with you and your son to have his room back to normal all it will take is for your son to wake up once in the middle of the night and then your son will know something is going on with his mommy and daddy.
Answer by raemommy at 12:26 PM on Jun. 15, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:47 PM on Jun. 15, 2009
You should apologize. First for snooping, second for not trusting him, third for over reacting, and forth for being so insecure that you had to say something to a woman just because he said she was beautiful. Jealousy is a very dangerous emotion. You need to work on that before you can even attempt to work on your marriage.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 8:23 AM on Jun. 16, 2009
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