I don't know if any of you remember me posting a few months back about my pending divorce. Well, we are well into it. My 3 older kids, ages, 21, 18 and 16 are blaming me because I filed. My 2 olders are girls and they will not even speak to me. I wrote them letters and told them that if they wanted to have a mother/daughter relationship, they need to change also. I told them both, i would not continue to allow them to treat me the way they do. they are very disrespectful and selfish towards me. I also told them when they are ready to talk I would be here. I told them I love them and need them.
They will not even aknowledge me what so ever. I have given up trying. My husband told the mediator that I have disowned them. go figure. My son came to me crying and told me he loved me, but he still is very loyal to his dad and is angry with me. What more should I do to get my kids to open up? Should I move on?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on Jun. 15, 2009 in Relationships
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