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Why does guys say they want to be with you but end up always shutting you out?

and when you end up shutting them out, they won't quit calling or e-mailing?

It's like he wants to be with you but not physically.

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:32 PM on Jun. 16, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • It's something called The Barracuda Dance where one steps up to dance and when the other steps up the other backs off and it goes on and on and on. It's not going anywhere. It's just a game guys like to play to keep women hanging on hoping it will go somewhere. I say cut him loose and find a guy who doesn't play games

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:09 PM on Jun. 16, 2009

  • cause he wants to make sure you're on the back burner if he "desperately" needed you...he's just got you on a string so he can pull you in when he wants...

    forget about him and get him out of your life. like the other lady said, he's playin games...just move on.

    Answer by carliemarie1015 at 3:31 PM on Jun. 16, 2009

  • It could also be that he is just trying to get in your pants. That might be all he wants. One minute he'll say he loves you, if he thinks he might get some. After he got it, or realizes he is not going to get it....SEEE YA!

    Answer by samurai_chica at 3:32 PM on Jun. 16, 2009

  • Because "he's just not that into you"....

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:32 PM on Jun. 16, 2009

  • If he is "just not that into me" then why does he keep trying to get me back?

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:44 PM on Jun. 16, 2009

  • Well, he's playing games with you and that means, he's obviously not mature enough for a relationship...

    Answer by treasured_hope at 5:58 PM on Jun. 16, 2009

  • It's all about the chase.

    Answer by Chrissy629 at 7:39 AM on Jun. 17, 2009

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