I have a 6 year old daughter that has really changed over the past few months. Temper, my word!! Her Dad and I have been divorced over a year now. He is very active in her life, however he just remarried so my daughter now has a step mom, and step brother. So having to share not only her Daddy, must be confusing.
And my boyfriend and myself have recently combined households so I'm sure that is an issue with her.
What concerns me the most is her verbal outbursts. I've heard her say, "I'm just stupid"! "I'm just gonna kill myself"! "I need a brain"! 'I need a shot to make me smart"!
What do I do and how can I help turn her confidence around? Is this normal? Is she just lashing out to get attention?????????????
Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Jun. 17, 2009 in School-Age Kids (5-8)
Answer by nakita72 at 11:55 PM on Jun. 17, 2009
Sounds like she is hearing this from someplace...TV? Repeating it from somewhere/someone else? Ask her why she think she thinks she is stupid? Let her know you don't think so...it is disappointing to you to hear her say that because you think she is a smart little girl. Tell her that you can see that she seems to be frustrated lately and you were wondering what is bothering her. Most kids will tell you when you ask. Check out the anger and self-confidence section on this link http://www.cjkidz.com/parentsgrandparentsteachers.html the book maybe helpful for her to read.
Answer by momjs at 12:07 AM on Jun. 18, 2009
Answer by tiggermom803 at 12:18 AM on Jun. 18, 2009
Your daughter needs professional counseling immediately. Ask your pediatrician for a referral.
Answer by teacher-author at 9:01 AM on Jun. 18, 2009
Next question overall
(Money & Work)
Did you know Hooters has a mastercard? would you use it? would your...