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How long? Not a sex question

1) What is the longest you have gone without speaking to your significant other?
2) What is the longest you have gone without seeing your significant other?

Just curious. For me, 1) about 24 hours, 2) 1 week.

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Asked by purpleducky at 11:05 AM on Jun. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • We are always together and when we disagree we just leave the room and seperate for a few hours and before you know it we forget what we were mad about. I hate to argue so I try to avoid it, bc I know he does love me and I love him (that jerk)

    in love


    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 11:09 AM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • 1) like 12 hrs or somethin && 2) about a day && a half, when I went to Missouri to see my brother graduate basic training

    Answer by HisMommySince07 at 11:32 AM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • Not talking..oh..probaly about 12-15 hours. Not seeing... the longest we've been seperated was 11 months. That was the first WESTPAC he went on after we were first married. Numerous others at 6 and 9 months.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 11:48 AM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • 1. About 10 hours (depends on if he has kids or if I do)
    2. A week and a half. Went back home to IL without him

    Answer by Juggalette0327 at 11:49 AM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • Well, we are long distance right now, so it's pretty long for both.

    1. We went for about 9 days, b/c we work opposite shifts and both had a ton of stuff going on and just couldn't get on the phone.

    2. So far, about a month. But he's about to start working 7 days a week again, so it might be almost a year before we get to see each other again, although we're trying to figure out a way to avoid that. :( But, I get to see him next week! :)

    Answer by tropicalmama at 11:56 AM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • I have gone a full 24 hours no talking.. and because of his stupid work we have gone about 10 weeks with out each other.. Its sooo sad!!

    Answer by TravisJohnsmama at 11:57 AM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • about 4 hours

    Answer by Mamaof2boys0709 at 12:03 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • Oh the longest for DH not talking to him has been about oh 3 weeks, and the longest not seeing him has been so far 6 months... But this fall will change about the longest I haven't seen him and that will be for about 16 months.

    Answer by Infantrywife13 at 12:44 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • 1) 3 hrs
    2) a little over a yr (he was in iraq)

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:09 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • not talking...probably from sleeping, lol....we can't stand fighting with each other...and one of us always gives in after a couple hours usually...
    and not seeing eachother...probably a few years ago when I went on vacation with my 5 or 6 days or something like that...

    Answer by carliemarie1015 at 2:51 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

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