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what a loser!

my sister is with a loser! he has no job went awall in the army just got out of jail for robbing someone. he always hits her thats why she left him before but went back to him. he threatened to kill her and her kids. he would always have a knife hid. im worried for her. what will it take for her to leave? does she like being hit? i told her she can do better. shes always getting pregnant shes 22 and has 4 kids and had a misscarriage. they r not all by him only one. idk y she would want to have one by him bc he made her have a misscariage before bc of abusing her. he makes her do everything. when she used to go to work he would watch them n who knows what he could of done or did to them. im scared one day something might happen to one of them.


Asked by Anonymous at 1:45 PM on Jun. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • they both sound like they have a lot of growing up to do. especially with 4 kids involved. she needs to take the whole parenting thing seriously. i'm sorry but once you have kids your needs no longer come first. no more screwing around. how well are these kids being cared for? i'm concerned they will grow up to have a skewed view of what "normal" is. very chaotic and sad. hopefully she gets her act together and stops having kids with everyone and takes care of the ones she already has. and the guy needs to own up to the child they share together and be a responsible human being too.

    you can try and help her see the light but ultimately the decision is hers. if you can prove neglect and abuse against the children you can report it and have them taken away if necessary. someone needs to step up before it's too late. good luck to all.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:09 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • Well honestly it doesn't sound like she's much of a winner to me..

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:48 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • Would she let her kids stay with you to get them out of that situation?

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:54 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • no she wont she thinks he will change and wont do that again but i dont believe that. she is in a different state then me so she prob wouldnt like the idea but i dont c why not.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:59 PM on Jun. 18, 2009

  • My sister is w/a loser too. I dont get this chicks..they get treated like shit time and time again and still theyre 2gether. Ive stopped and gave on her..i mean ill always be here for her..but as far as relationship advice its a waste of thinking shes been brainwashed idk.

    Sometimes i get so mad..Im like man is his penis that big? CAuse looking at him he sure is a lil man and so not worth the headaches, aggravations and abuse..ugh. Hoping she wakes up b4 shes under ground!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:12 PM on Jun. 18, 2009