Long story short...my dad has been in and out of my life since I was 43 days old. When I was 16 I got preggo with my first..said he didn't want to talk to me..he didn't for 10 years! I had another son in 2001-he's been completely absent from that birth also. So in December I told him I was prego with my 3rd son, he spoke to me for about 5 minutes, said he would call me back never did. I didn't hear from him again until new years, that was the last time I talked to him. So I am now into my 37 week of pregnancy and father's day is coming around. Needless to say I am a little hurt..He hasn't called and checked on me since new years, i am hurt and don't want to even call him to wish him a happy father's day-is this wrong of me? what would you do? I was thinking of just texting my little sis (lives with him in NY) and have her tell him I said happy fathers day, I don't know what to tell him, I am hurt!
Answer by Ash9724 at 4:57 PM on Jun. 18, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 5:16 PM on Jun. 18, 2009
Send him a card. This way you don't have to talk to him and be disappointed if he doesn't talk for long or doesn't call for a while. By sending a card you are acknowledging him and you are reaching out to him. I am not saying this will pull him back, it probably won't but at least you don't have to worry about the disappointment of knowing that he is probably disengaged.
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