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Do you ever feel guilty for smoking?

I smoke 1 cigarette a night-- that's it. When I was pregnant, obvs. I quit cold turkey and did so very easily but when I was on maternity leave, I was sooo stressed with the baby that I started again. I only smoke 1 a day after the baby is asleep, (never, ever around her) but I still feel kinda guilty about it. Does anyone else feel guilty?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:28 PM on Jun. 19, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (8)
  • Ok 1 cigg? You should be able to stop.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • I only smoke when I'm at work, my friend and I will take smoke breaks together. I do feel guilty occasionally because I know my son would throw a fit if he knew I smoked. We plan on quitting together though so hopefully we can stick to it!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • :30 why should she have to? Some people have an occasional beer or whatever, op, I don't think you should feel too guilty about one a day.
    ajguinn

    Answer by ajguinn at 1:33 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • Yeah, that's the thing.aiquinn! I never feel guity enoguh to quit b/c I smoke soo little. Occasionally I'll have 2 in one day, but that's pretty rare. And I never smoke during the day, only at night (weird, I know, but it's like a ritual now).
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • i smoke and i dont smoke in my house or car so no i dont feel guilty! you shouldnt feel guilty about one cigg.
    4lyfe56

    Answer by 4lyfe56 at 1:36 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • no
    HisMommySince07

    Answer by HisMommySince07 at 2:27 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • I didn't. Do you think that people feel guilty for having a drink at night? What is the difference? Don't give me people die from smoking. People die from alcohol related illnesses too.
    jesse123456

    Answer by jesse123456 at 2:41 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

  • i started out like that. before i had my daughter i smoked and then when i found out i was prego i quit on the spot but then a week after having her i would only have one a night...after a few months it jus ok one more ok one more...now i wish to god i didn't start back up. and im tryin to quit...i want to quit but its hard
    kuuipo317

    Answer by kuuipo317 at 7:29 PM on Jun. 19, 2009

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