Im a single parent, 21 with a 8 month DD.
I've been best friends with this girl since I was 7 or 8. When I would stay the night at her house, I would hang out with her dad (single parent) because my friend would go to bed at 8:00pm... anyways. This isn't the story. So when I got pregnant, I came back to live at my moms. Well he stopped by a few times to say hi and take me to lunch a few times throughout my whole pregnancy- took me and my sister to the movies once. He got inheritance of over a1,000,000. He started calling more frequent and i ignored his calls because it was just weird that he would want to hang out so much. my daughter was born. 2 months later he comes around Xmas time to give me 100$. I tried very hard to give it back but o well. So over the past few months we've done lunch a few times. HE has Parkinson's Disease and maybe 1 friend so i feel kind of bad... Mother's day came around and I had a laptop
Asked by Anonymous at 12:25 PM on Jun. 21, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)
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Answer by angelairelan at 1:08 PM on Jun. 21, 2009
Wow, I had a feeling that something was up when a this man was spending so much money on you and your little sister. The problem is, you had no idea what type of man this was until his daughter told you. The gifts are nice, but buying giving you these gifts he thinks that he owns you. He may start becoming more controlling and even obsessive. This is how they act. They will give and give and give, but you owe them. Even if you have told him not to talk to you anymore, he wants to you to keep the gifts because you will still owe him. Have a third party take back the gifts, I would not be alone with this man when you cut him off completely. He is obviously a different person than you originally thought, and you have no idea what he will do with rejection. It is not safe for you to be in this type of relationship. I feel bad for his daughter if he finds out she was the one who told you.
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