Ive been married to a man that i love so much for 5 yrs now!!! our realtionship has been very hard he cheated on me 5 times befor we got serious and hasnt since becasue i dont let him outta my sights!! (not being able to trust is killing me) and then he started to physically abuse me black eyes and busted lips and his parents knew and did nothing to stop it! i left him for 3 months and it has been 3 yrs since he has hit me he dont even raise a hand to me anymore! but now he is very verbally abusive!! Ive gained 87 lbs in 3 yrs ive also had 3 kids in that 3 yrs!! when he gets mad over the littlest things he starts in with that fat talk and puts me down at all times! hes a neat freak and so i am to a point but i have 4 kids under 5 and it gets hard when hes gone on 12 hr shifts!! i just dont feel like he loves me and is only with me cause i would get alot of child support and alimony!! he tells me that to when hes mad!
Asked by Anonymous at 3:28 AM on Jun. 22, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by PrttyMstng at 7:29 AM on Jun. 22, 2009
He is abusive, get out now! You should never have married him in the first place if you had trust issues.
Answer by beeky at 7:41 AM on Jun. 22, 2009
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