My boyfriend and I are 24 years apart. We have nothing in common besides our 10 month old baby boy. I love him with all my heart but sometimes it's like what am I here for. We go through spells where one of us gets mad at the other and just stops talking for 2 or 3 days. I got into a really big fight where he said he has been more miersable in the past 2 months then ever before. I said fine and left and now the baby and I are at my parents. I need help!!! My father raised me in a single parent home by choice and I dont want that for my son. Please Help, i feel like I'm ruining my child"s life.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:32 PM on Jun. 23, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by HazyPerception at 11:07 PM on Jun. 23, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:40 PM on Jun. 23, 2009
Answer by NannyB. at 5:46 PM on Jun. 23, 2009
If you are both willing to go then it should help. My husband and I went about 7 years ago, after our first baby. It helped with little things like scheduling dinner, who cooks, learning to share responsibility, and so on. We both liked her and also discussed things from our childhoods. If he'll go then it is a plus. You can go alone too. Also, having a young 10 month old is great, but it is a stressor on a relationship. You need time and to figure out parenting roles. People say mean things when angry and upset so think about what he said in that context. I hope things work out for your family.
Answer by Teachermom01 at 5:51 PM on Jun. 23, 2009
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