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Is it true that when you have anal sex, that it will stretch it out and not tighten back up?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:25 PM on Jun. 23, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Of course it's not.

    You think gay men are walking around with wide open anuses?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • Never thought about that. I'd just been told that by a LPN and wondered if it were true.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:30 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • why chance it?
    TMJ121099

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 6:32 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • I think over time if you do it a lot it might loosen it a little and lead to anal leakage, because it is a sphincter and suppose to only go one way. like that happens with some porn stars that do anal all the time etc

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:35 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • It can cause a prolapsed colon and tearing. No thank you and besides it friggin hurts.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:38 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • totally true, you will be hearing an echo for years after.......im kidding. You gotta think, when you go # 2 sometimes the size of those would put the average man to shame, (did i type that out loud) n e way, that hole stretches just like the other one, now you also have to take into consideration that sometimes during a # 2 there is pain, almost like bearing a child through your butt so just imagine a baby tryna go back in.....aint happening right
    aprildawn27

    Answer by aprildawn27 at 6:40 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • it will tighten back up if you stop having it for awhile....but its just like having it up front if you stop having it up front it tightens back up
    jessiesosore

    Answer by jessiesosore at 6:41 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • No, anal sex done properly is not painful or damaging. It does not lead to a permanently loose anus that leaks.

    If, on the other hand, you ram something large and hard inside with no lubricant or relaxation, you can get tearing, and yes that would be painful. Go slowly, and use more lube than you think you'll need.

    The only way you'd get a prolapsed colon is from anal fisting and then withdrawing the closed fist dangerously fast.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:08 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • Oww. Anal fisting. LOL
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

  • no but plan on having some leakage until it does go back the way it's supposed to be! Wear a pad for a day or two!
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:34 PM on Jun. 23, 2009

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