I got my 19 yr. old away from her deadbeat man and she has been accepted int a college.Her boyfriend has been giving her problems though.He called her last nite and was aking her why she hasn't came to see him,she said she has been getting herself ready to go to school.He wants her to marry him,but in the four yars they've been together she has worked more than he.He told her if she doesn't come to see him by this Friday,then he doesn't know if they will remain a couple.He says he wants to go to the same school,but isn't trying to hard,and he didn't want her to get a dorm unless he was in the same dorm.He hung up on her,and made her cry!!!I am furious that he is not supporting her in this!!!He is trying to bring her down,and seriously!!!I need some help as to what to tell her @ him.I've told her several things so far,and I and her stepdad are behind her.Any suggestions as to what else?
Answer by admckenzie at 12:36 AM on Jun. 25, 2009
Sometimes no matter what we adults say to the teenagers they go with their hearts, but in this case just tell her...Look at the way he is making you feel now can you imagine when you guys are together yes it might be feeling happy and good but all that comes to an end even though it seems like it will never end. If I were her I would just leave some where else in another state and go and start a new life. She does not need this kind of a treatment from no guy. Education first then love, if love comes with it make she knows her education comes first and tell ur daughter that once she finds the one she truly loves that will be for a long time so chose well and be patient. GL
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