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ugh my sister did it behind my back after i told her to wait what should i do?

Ugh i dont know what to do my sister had sex last night after i told her to wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am sooooooooooooo MAD!!!!! i have no clue what to do plz help me!!!!!!

 
Lilysmom1988

Asked by Lilysmom1988 at 7:06 PM on Jun. 25, 2009 in Teens (13-17)

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Answers (11)
  • If you go at her like she was wrong and act angry with her, you're never going to have her trust again. Do not yell at her or make her feel guilty. She's very young, but she's not a 3 year old. She will make decisions on her own, regardless of what you tell her not to do. Be nice!
    feesharose

    Answer by feesharose at 4:41 PM on Jun. 26, 2009

  • I really don't think there is much you can do at this point. Most people are going to do what they want in spite of the advice they get.
    MACY7108

    Answer by MACY7108 at 7:16 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • Get her the morning after pill.
    MythicMMM

    Answer by MythicMMM at 7:19 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • was she safe?
    was it with someone she was in a commited relationship with..how old is she...
    get her pill,condoms and give her the full talk
    ask her of shes ready to be a mom,and if not then she should cool it on intercourse
    pisces_chick89

    Answer by pisces_chick89 at 7:27 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • There is not much you can do now, she already had sex. Just because someone is told to wait, doesn't mean they will. Talk to her about protection of STD's and pregnancy and responsibility. Also, if your sister is under 17, you need a prescription for the morning after pill. Make her understand that it is her responsibility to protect herself and her partner and that she will be responsible for anything else that happens.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 7:28 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • Go get the kid on the pill at least...
    kitten_shuga

    Answer by kitten_shuga at 7:36 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • Oh, and some condoms, then show her some nasty STD pictures on the internet!
    kitten_shuga

    Answer by kitten_shuga at 7:36 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • "show her some nasty STD pictures on the Internet! "


    Oh yes, that is always totally fun! Also have her watch this clip on how to properly use a condom!

    MythicMMM

    Answer by MythicMMM at 7:51 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • Shes only 13 i so mad that she would do this!!!
    Lilysmom1988

    Answer by Lilysmom1988 at 8:22 PM on Jun. 25, 2009

  • Are you the OP from that other thread about how to convince little sister to wait?

    If so, look on the bright side: at least she came to you for advice, and at least she and the BF waited two years.

    Get her on the pill.

    There's really no point in being angry at her. Teach her safe sex and get over it.
    Mousuke

    Answer by Mousuke at 8:45 PM on Jun. 25, 2009