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WAT SHOULD I DO 2 KEEP MY RELASIONSHIP 2 STAY HOW WE 1ST STARTED?

I NEED 2 KNOW CUZ MY MAN IS STARTING 2 CHANGE LIL BY LIL IS IT BCUZ ITS NORMAL OR BCUZ HE DOESNT FEEL NOTHING 4 ME NOMORE???

 
lefty_69

Asked by lefty_69 at 5:05 AM on Jun. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • all relationships change. Sometimes they just settle in and don't put much effort into things anymore. Then it can get in a rut or they both can accept the way things are, still together but not exciting anymore. Tell him you want the excitement back. Not sure you can get back what you had in the beginning but maybe he can keep the spark going.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:37 AM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • It's good for a relationship to grow. I am so glad that my relationship is not in the same place it was when we first got married. It's just important that you grow and change together.
    BethTTC

    Answer by BethTTC at 5:42 AM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • First i don't have idea how your relationship is going and how it started.Many had benefited from reading his books.it sis very interesting subject about How to keep men in our life!...http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/FCTC..i been receiving email and it help undertanding men..you may try it..

    Good luck
    jayzs

    Answer by jayzs at 7:22 AM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • All relationships change in some way because the initial attraction wears off either turing into genuine care and love or disinterest. You have to communicate and spend time together. A relationship has to always be kept fun and meaningful with time spent together, good conversation, fun with each others friends, or one of you guys could get bored.
    amber710

    Answer by amber710 at 9:13 AM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • Relationships never stay the way they were when they started. Its a natural process, they grow and change or fade and die. Just like we do as people, we mature, and grow, so does our relationships with others. For love to grow and mature it has to be taken care of, and nurtured. Its unfair for you to expect him to stay the same person he was when you first got together, just like it wouldnt be fair of him to expect that of you.
    abbynzachsmommy

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 11:27 AM on Jun. 27, 2009

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