What do I do about my babies father?

He asked for a Dna test to be done when I give birth to my twins which is fine I'll do that.But I recently found out that the girl he was with now is pregnant and he's not questioning her's when he's only been with her for a week or maybe two.He doesn't make it down here for doctor appointments even if he knows about them ahead of time.He's willing to take of this other woman and makes sure she's at her appointments and everything.I just want him to man up and take of his children regardless of they aren't born yet.I'm high risk pregnancy and am on bed rest.I only have an income of 120 a week and things are hard.what do I do about him?

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liloneshannanon

Asked by liloneshannanon at 3:20 PM on Aug. 16, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • take him to court.
    MixedTwix

    Answer by MixedTwix at 3:37 PM on Aug. 16, 2008

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  • I would question him about why he thinks ur twins are`nt his and wont do anything for you or with you but he will for the other grl! tell him i relize were not together anymore but i am caring ur babies cant you help me out a lil by taking me/going with me 2 the doctor........after the babies r born he`ll have to pay u child suport for each baby thats a plus more money for the babies
    baby-girl08

    Answer by baby-girl08 at 3:44 PM on Aug. 16, 2008

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  • Try talking to him, and if he's not a man about it, just let him that you'll be needing state assistance to raise these babies and that he will have to pay child support. You can't force him to be in their life, but you can force him to pay finacially for his responsibilities.
    JJzMaMa87

    Answer by JJzMaMa87 at 4:13 PM on Aug. 16, 2008

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  • What do you want from him? Do you want him around the twins at all? If not, I would ask for child support and go from there, asking for full custody. If however he changes and is a great dad, maybe consider joint custody or something.
    TXdanielly

    Answer by TXdanielly at 4:36 PM on Aug. 16, 2008

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  • if he keeps acting like this, take him for everything he's worth.. go after him once you get the DNA test, because he had a part in the making of these babies and you shouldnt have to do it yourself
    sunshinebaby209

    Answer by sunshinebaby209 at 8:59 PM on Aug. 16, 2008

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  • if u know for a fact that hes the only guy that u were with when u got prego u dont have anything to worry about.take him to court when the babies are born and sue him for child support.he needs to take responsibility for all his kids not just his girlfriends.and if hes that immature he shouldnt be having sex or he should be using protection so he can ensure no pregnancies.
    mcoche08

    Answer by mcoche08 at 9:57 PM on Aug. 16, 2008

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  • i no how u feel my two older kids father took care of them until my daughter was 3/12 and my son was 1 we split 4 awhile and then he got a new gurl wouldn't even come and c them then we got back together cuz i wanted them to have a father then we split again 4 good when she was 4 and my son was 2 he stuck around 4 acouple of months now that i have sumone new and he has a new gurl he hasn't seen my kids in over a year. so i nailed him for chilsupport. he doesn't c them but he still pays for them so u need to go THE COURTS AND NAIL HIS ASS FOR ALL HE IS WORTH, and u deserve sumone so much better then him anyway i found a good guy i have one by him and one on the way amd our youngest one is only 4 mon so they r out GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS HOPE EVERYTHING GOES GOOD 4 U. ANYTIME U NEED TO CHAT U CAN WRITE ME TM8383
    tm8383

    Answer by tm8383 at 10:36 PM on Aug. 28, 2008

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