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wedding jitters or something else?

im getting married in 6 weeks and i have been married once before,
i am in love with my fiance and do want to marry him, we were talking about getting married a couple months ago and then i found out i was pregnant (he is happy about it and all) so we just decided to move up getting married, plus i wanted to do it soon because i dont want to be all huge in my wedding dress and the first time i got married was at the court house and i get a real wedding and a dress now and im so excited, my question is i am getting a little nervous about the whole, "what if it doesnt work out and i have to get divorced AGAIN" and im still in my early 20's! i also have a 2 year old son whos not my fiances and im worried, if this doesnt work out ill have 2 kids from 2 different guys etc. is that normal stuff or am i freaking out?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:04 PM on Jun. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • yeah it's normal. It will be fine. What will be will be.

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:15 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • Are you willing to walk away from what could be the best thing that ever happend to you because of a "what if" scenario? Of course not. Life is too short to worry about it not working out. Concentrate on the present. You can't fix the past, and the future is something that is ever evolving.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:01 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • idk i havent been married yet but im sure its jus normal jitters but one thing i can suggest is dont worry about "this could end up in another divorce" you gotta think positive cuz i strongly believe if your waiting for somethin bad to happen or keep thinkin somethin bad is gonna happen then it will. have faith be positive and most importantly remember jus because you were married before it doesnt matter this is a completely different person. dont let your past relationship interfere with the new. its not fair. like i said this is a whole nother person and obviously he's a good man cuz your getting married and having a family. no worries! be positive and congrats! ill be praying for you and your new family! how exciting!!!!

    Answer by kuuipo317 at 1:04 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

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