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does fighting just happen?

so me and the dh been together for seven years intense relationship.. but alot of passion . last night our two year old went to sleep around nine which was actually early for him. then end up having great sex in the shower eat a nice dinner.. then wake up before our son does then go at it again. then the day starts and some how we end up fighting bc we are tired .. i thought i could take a quick shower before he went to work.. but he had to shave so i did not have time.. then he forgets his lunch for like the third time that i made him. this hurts my feelings .but when he came back and got his lunch we kissed and i told him to have a good day.. we try to get along but i swear when we are tired it brings out the worse in the both of us.. but i do think that in a marriage sometime people agrue.. just try your best to patient and grateful the best u can.. right?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:42 PM on Jun. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Right! We all have our good days and bad days, and life just happens.

    Answer by 2-1CavWife at 2:44 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • right

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:50 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • It sounds as though you are doing quite well in your marriage. At least you understand what the problem is, that you are both tired and so your nerves are a bit frayed. When you argue or bicker, be sure to remember about the tiredness and say that you are tired and sorry about being so cranky. Probably best not to mention that he is also tired. Or better yet, since you recognize about the tiredness, stop and think and don't let yourself fall into the trap of not caring. Not caring is very easy to fall into when we are tired. So get plenty of rest when you can. You are doing very well.

    Answer by Bmat at 3:00 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • Yes its just something that goes on but makes a relationship stronger in my opinion because it shows you both can fight but move on and get past it.

    Answer by HollyRose at 5:29 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

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