My 21 year old daughter has been dating a boy for 4 years. I think he has severe mental issues. He seems to be manic depressive, with a side of severe anxiety disorder. He keeps breaking up with her saying she is too good for him. She then turns into am emotionall wreck that I have to deal with. Yes I have asked her how many times she wants to go threw this. Now she tells me that he tried to commit suiside(sp?) and is in the hospital. He is being kicked out of the navy, (she says he has decided to leave, yeah right)and plans to get a job where there is no stress. WTF! She is "in love" and I fear they will get married. Is there ANYTHING I can do?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:23 PM on Jun. 27, 2009 in Adult Children (18+)
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:34 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
I wish I could give you advice. My son is married to an abusive (she has been arrested for hitting him) and controlling woman (he cannot go anywhere unless she is with him and she even admits that he's never done anything wrong but that it's ONLY because she never lets him go anywhere without her and that if she did he probably would) who has successfully cut him out of our lives. She did it very quickly and very swiftly. My heart breaks every day and I miss my son so much my heart aches. But, every day I send him a good morning text and a good night text and let him know that I love him and that I am here for him. I think that that's all us moms can do, just be there when they need us again.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:03 AM on Jul. 1, 2009
Answer by lawla at 9:07 PM on Jul. 20, 2009
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