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is your bf or husband suppse to be your bestfriend?

cause mine says im not his best friend just his lover

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Asked by thehippiebaby at 8:28 PM on Jun. 27, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Typically they should be your BF. But often women will say theirs is not. I have to say mine is, I tell mine everything.

    Answer by ronjwake at 8:30 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • I dont think its something that "has to be" but I know that my SO and I are each others best friend. We tell each other everything and would almost always rather be together than anywhere else. (I say almost because who doesnt arguee every now and than lol)

    Answer by MommytoAngel08 at 8:33 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • My SO is my best friend, lover, sole mate his my everything and then some. We tell each other everything.


    Answer by raemommy at 8:33 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • My husband is definitely my best friend, we were best friends in high school, and then we married each other, lol.

    Answer by dedicatedrider at 8:33 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • I think so. My husband has been my best friend longer than we have been a couple. You have to be best friends...IMO....because being "lovers' doesn't last forever. When the ability to be "lovers" is gone, you need to be friends and companions.

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 8:34 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • It would be nice if it worked out that way; however, if he ever left then you'd lose both bff and lover.

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:43 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • I don't think so. My fiance and I aren't best friends at all. We love each other and trust each other but we each have our own friends.

    Answer by xCalliex at 8:45 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • I married my bf. I think it is the best you can really hope for. If my husband ever told me I wasn't his bf I think that would hurt me as badly as if he told me he was cheating on me. I don't think I could handle that.

    Answer by Petie at 8:45 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • My husband is awesome we tell each other everything and we are the best of friends. We love to be together. We're always together .

    Answer by Patty414 at 8:49 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

  • I love my hubby and have been best friends for a long time but i feel like i cant tell him everything...i still need a good girlfriend...that would have been so hurtful if my hubby had told me that too!! I wonder if it was ill intention were u guys mad at eachother?

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:00 PM on Jun. 27, 2009

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