I was dating a guy on parole and I give everyone the benefit of the doubt and in my heart I thought he'd change. He started going out at night and not coming home until 4 or 5 in the morning. Coming back drunk or high and I have zero tolerance for that. I let it go two times but the third time he did this I went the next day and told his parole officer he's an idiot and how we always fight etc etc.. He made me write a statement and said they wouldn't violate him on it. Come Thursday they took him back to jail and said it was because of my statement. His whole family is talking crap which I dont' care because we didnt' get along anyways. So now I'm 2 months pregnant and he won' t have a hearing until Aug 20th. I feel so bad about this but I was just so fed up with his bullcrap i just didnt know that my word would hold so much weight. Any advice???Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:59 PM on Jun. 27, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on Jun. 27, 2009
Answer by r00j04j08 at 11:00 PM on Jun. 27, 2009
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Answer by sparrowprincess at 11:01 PM on Jun. 27, 2009
Apparently you don't have a zero tolerance policy because if you did he would have been gone after the first time. That's what ZERO tolerance means.
Tell him when he straightens up he can look into part of your life. Make him pass drug tests if he wants to see the baby.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:02 PM on Jun. 27, 2009
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Answer by kmarie66 at 11:21 PM on Jun. 27, 2009
Anytime you write a statement it can and will be used against you or the person the statement is about, you live and learn so...next time don't write a statement unless your ready to face the consequences of writing the statement, now he's in jail. I agree with the others tho, it is probably for the best it's just a hard situation to be in, because your pregnant. Think long and hard about how you want to handle this meaning do you want this person to be in your child's life or not sometimes it is in the child's best interest to not be around someone that may have a negative impact on his or her life, even a parent. It just sucks to have to make those choices for your kid(s) you always wonder if it was the right decision. Good Luck.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:21 PM on Jun. 27, 2009
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