A friend said her husband wants her to grow her hair long that he doesn't want her to cut it. She however hes never had long hair before and doesn't really care for long hair or the work it requires to keep it pretty. I have said do what you want, its not like he will leave you if you decide you like your hair short, but if he does than he is just a jerk.
yes...i have a husband that has asked petty things such as this. when i wanted a tattoo and have wanted one for quite a while and told him how i felt he was quick to say that he didnt want a wife with trash on her. sometimes you do things for people just to make them happy or to not hear the outcome if you do what you really want. i hate conforming to other peoples ways but ive done it for so long now that its just how i am now.
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Answer by pinkgemini85 at 8:31 AM on Jun. 29, 2009
I was going to say if I had already changed and he wanted me to change back I would. But something as simple as letting my hair grow would be done without question. I actually care about what my husband finds attractive about me.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 8:51 AM on Jun. 29, 2009
sure i'd change. the locks, my name, my number, my marital status.
it would just depend on this: is your friend's hubby asking her to try it, or telling her to do it? considering what your partner wants is part of being a couple. conforming to what your partner demands is part of being controlled.
Answer by mellypoo at 9:00 AM on Jun. 29, 2009