I was reading a question on here asking if your dh wanted you to grow your hair long because he likes long hair would you do it. My question is if your s/o wanted you to change who you are would you? I am in that kind of marrage now. My dh is 50 I'm 30, we have been married for 9 years, but I'm from a completely different generation than he is. He wants me to be someone I'm not. I work nights (5p.m.-9p.m.) delivering pizzas. I like to go to a local coffee shop and eat a bite and play cards (rummy) with friends after work. He and the girls are in bed no harm right? I've been doing that since before we were married. It's my escape, a chance to laugh and have fun. But he sees it as me being childish or selfish. I do this like 2 nights a week if I'm lucky. I'm not our whoring around or anything illegal, just hanging out. Should I change who I am? What do you think?
Answer by BethTTC at 3:48 AM on Jun. 29, 2009
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