This guy I am seeing and I seen in the past said he didn't want a serious relationship, but we hang out together and he gets jealous when I hug other guys, he talks about me at work, tells me how beautiful I am etc. The other day he said he wants to take it slow and today I asked him if he sees us going any further and he said I still want to see you. What would you think about that if he said it to you? Thanks Got ? please ask.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 10:22 AM on Jun. 29, 2009
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Answer by TeriMelisa at 11:45 AM on Jun. 29, 2009
Don't always assume that he is playing you as a fiddle. There is nothing wrong w/ men being cautious. They have feelings too. He could have been burned in the past, you never know %100. Anyway, he talks about you. He likes you obviously. The more you sleep with him though, the more hurt you are going to be if he ends things. There is no reason to not keep dating him. You can put your feet in the water & see how it feels. If your gut tells you something is not right, go with that flow. But, if your gut tells you that it might be right, there is nothing wrong w/ giving it a chance. I do not believe all guys are slime balls, i would give him the benefit of the doubt unless he gives you any reason to think you can't trust him. My guy told me "we could never be together" but i hung in there, stayed friends with him. Here we are, engaged & completely in love 3 years later.......you just never know what could happen.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:56 AM on Jun. 29, 2009
Also, if he gets jealous when you hug other guys, maybe you shouldn't do that. My fiance broke it off w/ a woman once because he said she was too flirtatious w/ other men. Some men cannot handle that, they want to be the one you are falling over.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:58 AM on Jun. 29, 2009