okay well its been off and on for the past 4 months we have been married for the last 6 months. Okay well he has been going on myspace and talking to chicks telling them he wants them to go to the base and see him on family day, and telling them that we are getting a divorce. but when i confront him about it he goes and tells me he didnt say anything. Then another thing that gets me is he goes and flirts with them tells them they are hot,sexy,beuitful, and everything else you can think of but i dont get shit.. i do everything for him. And he leaves for basic/AIT 10 days after my due date. It seems like i have been the only one working on are relationship trying to make it work. please let me know should i leave or stay with him.. thanksAnswer Question
Answer by Bmat at 11:27 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by Dannee at 11:27 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:27 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
I would have already left. That shit i will not put up with he is lying to you flat out and sounds like he don't give too shits about how your feeling. LEAVE HIM you can't have someone much better. Your relationship you to have is not a healthy one and you need to have someone that loves YOU and that's gonna stay away from all these other women. I hope you make the right decision if i was you i would have left. Congrats on the new LO and good luck to you and your child.
Answer by raemommy at 11:29 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by angieluv at 11:34 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 11:34 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by Dannee at 11:40 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
If he is in the Army, they will take out money for the baby. Plus, if you are still married, but separated, then he will have to pay you spousal support. That is what my little brother had to do with his wife before they got a divorce. I am telling you this in case you do decide to leave. This man does not deserve you or this baby. And he will definitely not get the baby because he could be deployed at any minute. He will not be able to take care of him/her. This man does not deserve someone like you, and he is taking advantage of you. The WORST thing you could do is stay just for the baby and the fear of being left alone. If he does this for the rest of your life, you will end up being an empty shell of a human being. It will teach your children that it is okay to settle for less than what they deserve. I hope he wises up, but you deserve better. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 11:46 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by angieluv at 11:55 AM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by CoolGirlChris at 11:57 AM on Jun. 30, 2009