My son's father and I split up while I was pregnant. Since then we have continued to sleep together and he'll come stay with us for a night or two but is not consistent. I know I need to break the cycle. I was asking him some questions last night. I asked him if he ever thinks about how good things could be as a family. He said "Yes, I think about it but I also know myself so I don't let my imagination cloud my reality." I was confused what he meant and asked him what he meant and if he means he thinks what we have between us may be fake. He said "No, but I know how I am and I got too much to lose to make that a bad situation." He has told me before he's not good enough for me. He's not the most honest guy (lots of girls) & has hurt me a lot in the past. Do you think he means he's scared of screwing up? I asked him to clarify but he ignored me. I love him and want to give our son a chance at a normal life. Should I give up?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:33 PM on Jun. 30, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by TheDiva320 at 1:07 PM on Jul. 1, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:35 PM on Jun. 30, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:41 PM on Jun. 30, 2009
I don't see anything to "decode"... sorry. His statements sound pretty clear to me. He wants "friends with benefits" and nothing more... If you want more than that from him, you'll be sadly disappointed.
Answer by VeronicaLee at 9:41 PM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:42 PM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by TheDiva320 at 9:45 PM on Jun. 30, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:47 PM on Jun. 30, 2009