me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half. when we met i was working and he hadn't even had a first job yet (we're both 18) and when i had gotten pregnant he i spent way tomuch time driving him aroud and filling out applications, then about 5 days after our son was born he got a job working overnights at mcdonalds then quit after two days! i know he had lack of sleep but we had a new born who requires money to take care of him!!! i was so pissed and we fought about it everyday. then a friend landed him a job at a thrift store and its been about two monts and he came home fired! he claims it wasnt his fault but seriously how hard is it to keep a job!? we were finally getting fiancially steady and were even about to get our first place. our whole relationship i was stressed out over not having money and i dont wanna go through that again. i love him so much but dont know if i can hold on any longer.help!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:08 AM on Jul. 1, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by happi-ladi at 7:35 AM on Jul. 1, 2009
You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and know the meaning of responsibility... I would talk to him about this and tell him your concerns. If he does it again, you said that he has done it twice....I would be very concerned. You can not make it in this world with someone who can not hold down a job. Reach inside yourself and know that what is important to you can not be compromised.
Answer by Dannee at 10:03 AM on Jul. 1, 2009