would you tell your sister if her 13 year old daughter was having sex?
my niece confided in me and i have given her an ultimatum to tell her mom by sunday or i will tell her myself. i feel she is too young to be making adult decisions and she should face the consequences of her actions. i told her if she fesses up herself, i will be there for moral support. but god, i feel like if she would get pregnant or an std, i would be partly responsible. i cant even sleep because of this. i still remember the day she came home from the hospital. she is an honors student, extremely athletic, beautiful, and seriously is so NOT attention deprived. she goes to church and attends all the functions. i cried when she told me because she just has so much potential. what is your take on this??? she said she is scared of losing my sis's trust, cell phone...but not scared to lose the big V, i asked her???
Asked by Anonymous at 9:37 AM on Jul. 2, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by ReneeK3 at 9:45 AM on Jul. 2, 2009
Answer by Kodeekins at 9:50 AM on Jul. 2, 2009
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Answer by kimberlyinberea at 10:10 AM on Jul. 2, 2009
Just remember,,she probably will not confide in you anymore. By doing this.
If she doesn't tell her mom,,Just tell your sister.."You should put you daughter on birth control"
If she asks why,,say "go ask your DD".
Answer by louise2 at 10:10 AM on Jul. 2, 2009
She came to you for support and trusted you enough to talk to you - and you broke that by making her tell her mom? Good for you, now when something serious happens she won't talk to anyone! What is wrong with you. Sex at 13 is normal, hell, I was younger than that! It's not about attention, it's about sex. Sex is fun, it feels good... IF she was just looking for attention she would have found a better way, I'm sure... It sounds to me as if she is just going through the normal process of growing up, came to you because she needed an adult when she realized she was in to deep, and you turned around and betrayed that by forcing her to come clean. Now, when it's pregnancy or drugs or whatever, she isn't going to come to anyone... How sad! She trusted you!!
Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:20 AM on Jul. 2, 2009
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