Let me get this straight: your husband knows you are jelous of the secretary at work, he knows she wants to break up with her boyfriend, he has personal messages on his phone from her and now he is making himself look nicer for work?
I think you need to sit him down and talk to him about this. Ask him WHY he is suddenly showing an interest in his appearance, and WHY does he have her # and messages from her on his phone? I would remind him that he is a married man.
I (myself) would be very tempted to get ahold of his phone and call her and remind her that he IS married, he is NOT available and that her messaging him about things other than work is not appropriate! I would be tempted to block her # from his phone too!
at 12:12 PM on Jul. 2, 2009