my husband deployed last year. a few weeks into the deployment i found out he had cheated. we decided to work on our marriage through the deployment and worked out alot of things and got the space we both needed. He's just returned home a few weeks ago and I feel like im back at day one with the whole cheating issue. I cant let it go. I thought I had worked through it but with him home in my face I see that i havent. He is doing everything he is supposed to. I dont think he is cheating any longer. I just cant stop bringing it up and throwing it in this face.Anything can trigger me and I bring it up. For ex last night i read a post on cheating and here i go going crazy on him when all he was doing was sitting on the sofa playiny xbox. How do i let this go so I dont push him away and lose my marriage completely? We have started the love dare and we are set to begin counseling next month.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:05 PM on Jul. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by scooterpooter at 3:07 PM on Jul. 2, 2009
You can either let it go or you can't. Its up to you. I hope it all works out. Hes been through some rough stuff too and it sounds like you both just need to see what you saw in the beginning and go from there. Good luck.
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