She isn't allowed to date him anymore, but is infatuated w/him. He tells her what to think about us (we are too strict and are ---holes) , what to read about politics, what videos and games to play (rude and violent-no go here), that he hates people they're all stupid, wants to be left alone, never compliments her on her talents (music, academics) but tells her he'll never leave her. He emphasizes that he doesn't fit in either and I know it bothers her that she's not more popular. She is, deep down, a beautiful person, smart, dedicated, and wants to do the right thing, but he is feeding into her insecurities! We have noticed negativity and rudeness lately which has spilled over to affect everyone in the family, and we just took away the cell and computer. She has no communication right now w/the boy, day 3. We are trying to keep her busy. She does have 3 best girlfriends, who we like very much! Any constructive suggestions?Answer Question
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