I have a question, I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and we found out 4 months ago I am pregnant, well right after we found out I was pregnant he started to hurt me, Slapping, Choking, Slaming me against walls,biting, it has even happen a couple times where he has hit me with his belt. Problem is why I dont leave is he swears up and down that it wont happen again it is July 3 and it hasnt happen for 2 days now and I dont know if it is gonna stop. One day I finaly got up enough guts to ask him why he does it, he said " It turns me on and it helps me feel better" He told me he will go get counsling for it and that he swears its gonna change, but I dont know if it ever really will I really do love him, but if he does it for those reasons will he ever stop. He has it stuck in my head no one will believe me, but I took pictures of my black eye would that stand up for proof ? I Need Ideas and answers. Thank youAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:27 AM on Jul. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by VeronicaLee at 1:34 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by kgck_momma at 1:39 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by VeronicaLee at 1:40 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
"Unless he admits he has a problem"
Even if he admits he has a problem... You need to get out, and get help for yourself fast!! My ex admitted many times he had a problem, but the abuse continued!!
Answer by VeronicaLee at 1:42 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by VeronicaLee at 1:47 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by katsogrimey at 2:02 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by katsogrimey at 2:04 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by luvmyangels3 at 2:06 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Domestic lines will take the baby away from you and it will show in your record that you have been abused and have mental problems, nobody that hasn't gone through what you have been through can help your or understand. Sit back and think what is better for you or what you want, only YOU have the best answer to the situation.
That is ABSOLUTLY NOT TRUE!!!!! That is what an ABUSER will tell you!!! It is NOT TRUE!!!! I have BTDT and that is NOT will happen!! Talk to some BTDT Moms... Do NOT believe katsogrimey.... I promise what she is telling you is a flat out lie!
Answer by VeronicaLee at 2:10 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
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