our toddler.. do i owe the dh a massage...yes i should give him on to promote his health like weekly and the feet twice a week mybe 15 min TIme.. and like thirty min.. massage once a week.. we cant afford for me to get perfonissonal massage. and i like rubbing hubby down..but sometime he throws in face that seven yeaRS Ago he paied my through massage therapy school.. the schooling was like five grand and now im not using the schooling he paied for while being with our child.. thoughts on a reasonable in between for the both of us.. and he sucks and wont massage me atall.. but thats i ok bc not every has strong hands. and he says his hands hurt after two min... thoughts?????Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:57 AM on Jul. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by MommyLee08 at 3:59 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by toriandgrace at 3:59 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 4:02 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Yeah, that sucks, now I feel bad. I have a male friend who did nothing with his life until he was 32! I mean he never went to school or had a job. I used to pay him to come and do handyman work. Well, he started hitting on me and I had always liked him. One day I gave him the longest lecture ever about how I could never be with someone who doesn't work and so on. Long story short, he ended up studying to be a masseuse and was offered a BETTER job by a client. I tend to feel entitled to the occasional shoulder massage the 5-6 times a year I see him. Sorry,lol. We both laugh about it because he told me that if I had never been so brutally honest with him he would have never gotten his butt in gear. Now as for your husband! He needs to just chill. He helped you because he loves you. Not because he wanted to be pampered.
Answer by Gigi1969 at 4:27 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by mschanng at 6:30 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by plylerjones at 8:25 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
If you were working you would be massaging people all day. You aren't and he is. So yes you should be giving him massages daily. Especially if he has a manual labor job.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 8:33 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
Answer by lighthousemom3 at 11:57 AM on Jul. 4, 2009
I haven't read the other posts, but my take is this: Break down what you'd have to pay for child care, extra gas, meals out or extra food for lunch if you did go back to work. Then also break down the price each thing you do for him is (laundry, child care, maid service) and tell him you've repaid that money a long time ago!! My DH and I had these issues once, he stopped once he realized how much I was really "worth" lol
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 12:22 AM on Jul. 5, 2009
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