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If your adult sister (or brother) said SCREW YOU to your 2 1/2 yr old because she didnt like how he was playing.. would you go off on her?

Yes my family is disfunctional.. My sister is 20.. my son was blowing raspberries like kids do she told him to stop spitting on her . i told her he was not spitting he was playing .. and his dad backed me up on it.. she called him a spoiled brat and then looked at me, my fiancee and my 2 yr old and said "SCREW YOU, YOU AND YOU.. then pointed right at my son.. i was soooooooooo pissed off! we left shortly after.. just wondering waht other people would have done

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Asked by JrsMommy07 at 9:41 PM on Jul. 5, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • Wow, your family has some issues, lol. Yes, I would be mad and I would have gone off on her if I was you.

    Answer by JeremysMom at 9:43 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • I would have slapped her!

    Answer by Love2BMommy77 at 9:43 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • That is terrible, I would have totally went off on her! Once a guy I knew say FU to my 13 year old son, I totally went off on him, I was ready to kick his butt, my son had to hold me back! I wouldn't trust your sister around your child, especially alone!

    Answer by robinann5 at 9:44 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • My husband's, mother's daughter (he would never claim to be related to her, she is evil) accused our then 2 year old daughter of picking a fight with her.

    Do not ever trust this person alone with your dhild.

    Answer by rkoloms at 9:53 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • I would have knocked the hell out of my sister.

    Answer by TeriMelisa at 10:09 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • thats ridiculous telling a 2 yr old that? hes just a baby! I definatley would have done something about that

    Answer by skin172 at 10:16 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • I stopped speaking with my sister after she called my daugher a retard when she was about 8 months!
    My sister was 20.

    Answer by isra1986 at 10:23 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • Yeahhhh my sister (or brother) would not be seeing my child anymore. Period.

    Answer by LondonAsMommy at 10:28 PM on Jul. 5, 2009

  • LOL, she just sounds like a twit who doesn't like kids. I would have rolled my eyes and probably called her a naughty word.

    Answer by MotherofIreland at 12:12 AM on Jul. 6, 2009

  • Hun, some families have more issues than others. I can say this because I married a man from a simple family, and myself coming from a very complicated issued full family I can say I value the lack of complexity. It is for this reason I have cookie cut certain members from my life. I don't want my children around them and I don't want their habits picked up.

    I would never allow my brothers to speak that way to my children, if they have issues with my children they're welcome to bring them up with me one on one, we can hash them out together and work things out like adults. Your sister is the spoiled brat if she cannot act like an adult and not learn to not speak that way in front of or to a toddler. I would not have anything to do with my brothers if they talked to me that way, they'd be lucky to have a jaw if they talked to my kids that way. My suggestion is to get the cookie cutters out and try them.

    Answer by Knightquester at 2:55 AM on Jul. 6, 2009

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