honestly I've been there already and done it. I told my dd the real names penis and vagina. the reason I did so was I have studied law alot as well as know 1st hand that if this child were to be molested heaven forbid their means shit with out the factual words. If the child states he put his winky in my tooter, or his hotdog in my cookie. Then the defense will say the child is confused and move for a mistrial which 9/ 10 of the time will be granted. The bad guy wins sad story. I suggest you use the real names to help protect your child for this possibility and prepare them for life. Hopefully this would never happen in which cause it does no harm and saves from a silly conversation for later, If it were to happen you make your odds of justice higher. Also you should let them know good touch bad at the same age. If you want a cutesy name there is cookie, Good luck I apoligize for the sadness I just strongly believe in this.
at 3:29 AM on Jul. 6, 2009