I went to a friends house last night and realized Im the youngest of my friends and Im about to be a mom. Im only 19 I should be our partying and going to the lake with my friends but instead Im at Birthing Classes and reading pregnancy books! I dont want to stop hanging out with them just because they drink. Im not saying that I will be a bad mother but now that Im pregnant, there just seems to be more important things in my life other than getting drunk and going to parties. So here is my question, how do I balance being pregnant but still having fun with my partying friends? (PLEASE no bashing I am really not in the mood lol Oh and please dont call me a bad mom because Im 19 thanks!)
Answer by amy31308 at 10:14 AM on Jul. 6, 2009
yea im 22 with two beautiful girls. i ahd my 1st at 18 and2nd at 21. i dont hang out with any of my friends my age because all they do is party. so my friends are 28 and older with kids. it kind of stinks because im not relateable to them but im definitely not realateable to my age group. i think you can still hang out with them going out to movies and dinners. i really found out who my real friends were after having a kid. good luck.
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It's just a part of life and becoming an adult. Your friends can either understand and do things with you that don't include partying, or you can find new friends that have more in common now with you. I didn't get pregnant until I was 24, but I still had the same problem. My friends still wanted to party and I didn't/couldn't, so I found new "grown up" friends. Even if my new friends didn't have kids yet, they were still more fun to be around. But maybe I was just ready to move on in life and my old friends weren't.
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