it is getting really old! it seems that none of my inlaws care about our 2 boys, but make special trips, and plans for my SD it is highly getting on my nerves and causing problems with me and SO.. what should i do? example..
our birthday party for the boys is on a weekend when we dont have SD, they are throwing a fit over it, i made the plans way ebfore i knew if we would have her or not, and cant change them.. we are asking her mother if we can have her for the party but if she says no there isnt a thing we can do, thats not good enough for the imlaws, they all want to call her and such, which i dont think they ahve a right, its between the parents, not the inlaws.
so when my sil said she was gonna call the BM i snapped, i told her it wasnt her place and that my SO would take care of it... did i go too far?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Jul. 6, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:21 PM on Jul. 6, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:43 PM on Jul. 6, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Jul. 6, 2009
First off it's not your place to say anything about any of it. She isn't your child. And it's his family. They have every right to do what they can to get her to her brothers party. Unless HE specifically tells them not to. Especially considering your refusal to make any changes. My question would be if you have a visitation schedule how did you not know it wouldn't be her weekend? It seems like you planned it that way so that she couldn't be there so she couldn't take the attention away from your sons.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 9:28 AM on Jul. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 PM on Jul. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:51 PM on Jul. 7, 2009
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