I have become good friends w/ my fiance's, best friends wife. My SO has known them for 20 + years. She recently posted some old pics of them, way before i was around. I always notice this one beautiful lady in all the pictures, but i have never met her. Yesterday as i was looking at another bunch of older pics she posted, I noticed that lady again. All of a sudden, out of no where i thought "he slept with her". You may think I'm crazy, but i just intuitively knew, also this was way before he even knew i was alive. So, i went home & i confronted him about it. He looked like he's seen a ghost. He admitted that yes he slept with her a LONG time ago (how did i know that?). It's now killing me. I always look at old pics of girls & run into people he's slept with. I HATE that he was such a whore in his past, for some reason it really bothers me. It doesn't help that all those woman were hotter than me.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:53 AM on Jul. 7, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Bmat at 9:13 AM on Jul. 7, 2009
WE all have pasts. You need to realize that even if sex wasn't involved there are pasts. You need to grow up and see what you have now. Is he committed to you? Then let it go. Why waste energy on things you cannot change at all? You may end up damaging the relationship and it will be your fault. You sound immature and unknowing of how things work. Find confidence in yourself and your love.
PS you can't keep points on what anyone did in the past or their sexual partners. That's just not fair, and you will tear yourself up. People grow, change, and find true love. If they had other partners, that is part of life. Most of us do have pasts.
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