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what should i do?does all men take time growing up???

i have been with my fiance for over 5 years and now we have 2 beautiful children nicholas and nathaniel....i dont understand him as much no more...i guess i might of grew up and he didnt.he has numbers with different girls calling every other night looking for him knowing we are together.when i was on the phone i asked them why are they calling i had one girl say he said his nephew pic was in the wallet but instead i found out its the pic or his oldest son he says we just friends or he tries saying someone else gave him his number that he didnt.i have been working my tail off at work and been doing everything while he home watching the kids or hes just on xbox 360 or out...he moms is still supporting him i mean i am young and so is he but i dont understand why everything chances.i dont know what to do its so hard trying to leave

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Asked by locotiffany0803 at 2:12 PM on Jul. 7, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Time to move on if u have been engaged for five years- that is too too long- commitement time- tell him marriage or ur gone and he will pay child support- why did u have 2 kids and not get married? I knew aomeone who dated for 7 yrs and guess what - he married another girl. Talk to him before u have another baby. Tell him to get a job before u do leave him so u can get child support if u have to leave- but dont tell him that- tell him hes a Dad and has to be responsible and a good example now, and u are tired of paying most of everything- tht u r exhausted- he has to help. If he loves u he will not jepordise ur health- the kids need Mommy.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:24 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • Stand up for yourself and your kids. If you don't, no one else will.

    Answer by missanc at 2:40 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • Forget about how long it will take for him to grow up....he may never...

    You need to take care of yourself and your children..

    You are nothing but a damn doormat to this little boy..

    Listen to missanc...

    stand up for yourself..

    Answer by Dannee at 2:44 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

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