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My 18 yr old daughter recently had sex for the first time...

She said that when her boyfriend went in it felt like she was ripping and though she's tried a number of times it still won't stop. The pain that is. Also when she inserts her fingers she can feel a weird pea sized nobbly lump type thing underneath what she think is her cervix, and her cervix is much less than a finger length in. Is this normal? Please help, thank you.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:24 PM on Jul. 7, 2009 in Health

Answers (6)
  • IM NOT A DOCTOR OR ANYTHING,BUT I DO NOT THINK IT IS NORMAL,HAVE HER GET LOOKED AT ASAP,JUST TO BE SAFE
    kristi12866

    Answer by kristi12866 at 3:26 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • I would have her go to a Dr. or at least call your gyno. and explaine to them what's up cuz that don't sound normal
    looovemybabies

    Answer by looovemybabies at 3:26 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • When in doubt take her to Gyno
    FuzNet

    Answer by FuzNet at 3:26 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • that's great that your daughter is so open with you. i'd start by taking her to a gyn. to check her out to make sure that nothing was damaged and there are no abnormalities that might have caused the discomfort in the first place. good luck and i hope she feels better.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:27 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • That isn't normal, have her go to her doctor and get it checked out. It might just be that she ripped and it's healing and it's left a scab for now. But she should go to be on the safe side.
    VasquezFamily

    Answer by VasquezFamily at 3:27 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

  • Take her to the gynocologist to make sure all is ok
    Butterfly1108

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 3:28 PM on Jul. 7, 2009

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