My dh does, and it is affecting our marriage. He has been this way since we got married, and it was hard then...and even harder now. I've told him many times in the past, that it affects our marriage, and that I end up sub-conciously resenting him due to this. But he does nothing to change it.
We've been married 8 years now, and I am at my wit's end. I have love for him, and want this to work...but right now, it feels like a one way street.
Here's just 1 example for you. We bought our home 4 years ago, 1 year after we bought it we had a flood in the master bathroom. He told me he didn't want to file w/ our homeowner's ins., and that he'd fix it himself. He'd also update the bathroom while he was at it. We purchased ALL the materials that he'd need...sink, tile, everything. 3 years later...it is still un-useable. No where near done...and 100% un-useable. There's more...but I won't bore you. lol.
What do I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Jul. 7, 2009 in Relationships
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