My husband and I separated last September (2008). He had cheated on me multiple times during our 2 year relationship (50 times was the last he told me), and left so he would be free to explore his options. Though it hurt me very much, I backed off and let it happen. Neither of us has filed for Divorce yet. He met a girl, got her pregnant, and proposed. Recently, they have broken off the engagement. He claims it is because he wants to be with me again. He wants to make our marriage work, for our daughter, and because he loves me. I do love him, but I don't ever want to be in a relationship like the one we had before. I want to do what is best for my daughter, but I don't trust him like I once did. What would you do?
Answer by jessemo6 at 7:36 PM on Jul. 8, 2009
Damn if he cheated on you like that I would not get back with him! Its not fair to you or your baby to have to o through that again! Dont do it, he just ran out of women who are not going to put up with his shit so he thinks he can run back to you an you Will take him back! Be strong and hold your foot down, you don't need to go through that! I was in a relationship like that and I keep taking him back and finally said this is it, because he kept cheating and when I was pregnant wit our DD he decided to get 2 other women pregnant ( one with twins)! This is a hard thing to go through so don't do it due to it will make your life a living hell!
Answer by SD777 at 12:13 PM on Jul. 8, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 12:47 PM on Jul. 8, 2009
Wake up Please................
If you go back to a "man" like that .....what are you telling your child and yourself..
Start respecting yourself....
and go file for DIVORCE..
50 times tell yourself....50 times...
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