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How does it work? Like if someone is murdered did they choose to be murdered? Did the person who murdered them choose to do it before they were born? Or do you write out something that can be influenced and changed once you are actually living it? And if that is the case then what is the point of charting in the first place?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:47 PM on Jul. 8, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs

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  • It sounds like you are talking about reincarnation & the planning of your life before you dive in. Of course, I don't think anyone knows for sure how it works, though they may get the feeling during their life of "this is what I am here to learn this time". My best guess would be that you choose your general character & life circumstances and learn what life gives you while you are in that situation. So for example you might choose to be someone who feels malevolence towards others & experiences a life that will cultivate that (perhaps being born into an unstable home or to a parent with a serious social or mental issue). That sort of "stacks the deck" toward you doing great harm like murdering someone but doesn't insure it. And what you had in mind before you went might be changed while living, but that is ok because each experience is worthwhile & you will have plenty of other chances.


    Answer by nysa00 at 2:26 PM on Jul. 8, 2009

  • i dont think you say i gonna go down this street make a right, detour etc etc...

    i think you say in the end ill end up near here......and you decide the journey while living. ie is the journey not the destination

    Answer by moki1984 at 2:31 PM on Jul. 8, 2009

  • Charting is when one looks at the sign that the moon, sun and planets were all in when they were born and them uses the aspects of those to chart who they will be and how life will go. However it's not possable to actually see the future. We are all affected by the placement of the moon and sun, at the moment of birth we are no longger a part of our mother and are now affected differently. The draw of the planets, sun & moon at the moment of birth can tell us things about ourselves such as are we quick to anger, are we passonate... It can HELP to point out flaws or greatness inside ourselves, but at some point free will takes over. You may be charted to die young, but you may live to be 102, did you die young? No, but did you avoid death at 13 by fighting cancer? Were you revived from drowning at 25?? The stars are generally right, but free will rules all. All charting can do is give us a guide.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 3:31 PM on Jul. 8, 2009

  • I believe that murder victims do "write in" the event before they come here. But, that doesn't mean that it can't be changed once we are here. I believe each person writes in exit points (points in their chart when they can decide to either go home or stay here to continue to learn). So, yes, you can write it in your chart that you will be murdered but it can be changed once you are here. And remember, I don't believe that all the lessons that are taught by murder are taught to just the victim and murderer.

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 4:00 PM on Jul. 8, 2009

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