I found the someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. But we broke up a week and a half after we got together. The man reason we broke up is cuz all i did was cry when i was with him. It doesnt help when im pregant by my ex and he know it. But the thing is that i want him back i just dont know what to do if it happenes again. i mean I have spent money on him b4 we got together just so i didnt lose him and now he says "We can still be friends but not together" it hurts to still remember the call at 1 in the morning. i love him to death and i wish he would come home what can I do. I dont want to sit back and wait for him but i will if i have to. please what should i do. Should i wait or should i move on and try and be a single mom for good?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Jul. 8, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 5:39 PM on Jul. 8, 2009
I know you have heard this before, and you are not going to want to hear this again, but he is not the love of your life. If he was the love of your life he would have taken to account the fact that you can not control how much you cry. Heck, you can't even control how much you pee. This man had no patience for you and obviously wouldn't have any patience for your baby. You would not want that around when you have a newborn who has needs that they cry about. He was not the man for you. You need to hold your head up high and remember that you have a gift inside of you that is counting on you for love and support. Don't worry, in time you will find someone who loves you for who you are and wants to have a family for you. Please remember that it was not because of this baby that he broke up with you, it was because he was a selfish jerk. You do not need him and you will realize you are happier in the long run. Good luck.
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